Nicole is a person we support at Somerford Court in Tottenham, London. Recently, she was experiencing increased difficulties at home, prompting the team to consider additional support. As such, Bola, the home manager, and her key workers held a meeting to discuss ways to help Nicole thrive.
One of the exciting strategies decided upon was to introduce Nicole to a local day centre, where she could engage in a variety of activities designed to enrich her social skills and reduce boredom. The vibrant atmosphere of the day centre quickly became a highlight of Nicole’s week, filled with laughter, music, and new friendships. During the lively sing-along sessions every Thursday, Nicole’s attention was drawn to a young gentleman who captivated her interest. She expressed her desire to create a relationship with him, igniting a spark of enthusiasm in her journey.
Although she initially felt shy about approaching him, her dedicated staff encouraged her to take small steps forward. With their unwavering support, Nicole took the courageous leap of asking for his name and managed to obtain the contact details of his home manager from his carer. This new connection filled Nicole with hope and excitement.
Now, Nicole is eagerly looking forward to her upcoming visit to his home, accompanied by staff. She dreams of sharing delightful moments, perhaps enjoying a cup of tea or attending more activities at the day centre. This budding friendship represents a significant milestone in her life, showcasing her determination and the wonderful possibilities ahead.
Update: Nicole has had a few meet-ups with Terry* and has begun forming a meaningful friendship. This past Halloween, Nicole invited Terry to join in the spooky celebrations at Somerford Court. Accompanied by a staff member, Terry attended, and together with Nicole and the rest of the home, they enjoyed a fantastic evening filled with creative costumes and Halloween-themed treats. Both Nicole and Terry are excited to spend more time together in the future.
Who knows what the future might hold? As Nicole embraces this new chapter, she is not just working towards her goal; she is blossoming into a more confident and social individual, ready to embrace the opportunities that lie ahead.
*Name changed for privacy reasons
